So, you are registered on a dating site to find your perfect match. If not, I would suggest that you register for free at HotLoveKiss.com, it's the one where I've had the most success and there are 20,000,000+ real members on this site. Then you obviously need to write a good description in your profile and upload pictures of yourself... But succeeding in the online dating world requires a bit more than that, especially if you want to get dates that you really seem to be interested in.
To help you achieve your online dating goals as soon as possible, here are 4 very important tips I can give you:
1. Do not write in text message mode
If you do not want to sound like a retarded teenager, write like an adult. Banish words like "lol" from your profile and all the other types of text message abbreviations. By avoiding big mistakes in spelling and expressions you will also avoid giving the impression of surfing all day at locations for an audience too young for a serious meeting ...
2. Do not skip steps
Do not ask for a date before you have exchanged several messages or interacted in a chat session. Make her understand that you have nothing against anonymous discussions to begin a relationship. It helps build a climate of confidence and trust, which will greatly improve yur chances of getting that date you want further down the line. If you try to rush things on an online dating site, you will keep being rejected. Take your time, it's worth it!
3. Do not compliment her looks
You should never say how beautiful a girl is the first time you send a message to her. This will give her the impression that all you are interested in and attracted by is her physique. If that's the case, keep it for yourself! Your first praise should be about what she says, a joke or a remark she has written on her profile. If just had some success in her life (professional success, travel ,...) and talks about it, that's what you want to use to get in touch!
4. Do not be trivial
There are millions of singles online. Think and write as if they were all interested in the same person as you. Just imagine that all these guys are writing a message to that girl you're trying to get in touch with. That way, you will make sure that your message will attract her attention and that she will remember it. Be original, even in your way of saying hello (usually a girl will decide whether she wants to keep on reading or not afte the first line). Feel free to be different, it's your best chance to be memorable and get an answer.
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