Saturday, August 20, 2011

Online Dating and Emailing But No First Date Spark

It is not uncommon for people to email back and forth with a potential match for a month or so before ever setting up the first date, next comes the first date and you felt no attraction, now your asking yourself what happened? You both appeared to have many things in common with each other and have spent a lot of time communicating by emails and text messages and it turned out to be nothing. As with any relationship, there are two fundamental qualities that must be present for the relationship to develop into a long term deal and they are chemistry and compatibility. Several of the popular dating sites match their members based on their values and personalities and this helps people find matches that are like minded singles.

A relationship that has both chemistry and compatibility between them is the foundation to building a special long term relationship, without these two it can be nothing more than a disaster for developing a successful long term relationship with that person. When a relationship has a lot of chemistry and is lacking compatibility it may seem exciting at first but when the excitement wares off then both of you may become disinterested in each other. On the flip side, if a relationship has compatibility but no chemistry, this can cause the relationship to lack attraction and passion to each other.

With that said, people have different time tables as to when chemistry and compatibility kicks in, for some it takes several or more dates and for others it may click in the first date. When you are meeting people through an online dating site, it sometimes becomes to common to talk back and forth with that person by only emails or text messages and that may not be the best idea to really determining if there is in fact chemistry and compatibility with your partner so it is a good idea to spend quality time talking with each other by phone before that all important first date, hearing the other persons voice may give you some idea if there is any chance of you being attracted to them. Good Luck and Happy Online Personals Dating to all Singles!


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