People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water€because it works€or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen€and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That€s not only wise but vital. So what€s a nice guy to do? You aren€t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for €the€ girl for you.
You must be patient. Don€t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don€t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn€t just see your head.
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You€ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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