6 Ways to Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile

Your dating profile, also known as personal profile or personal ad, is an essential part of online dating. Get it wrong here you will not get a response. This article will offer ways to make the most of your online dating profile.

1. Post the right picture: Note that it doesn't just say a "good picture". A picture can mean the difference between getting lots of responses, getting just a few responses, or no response at all. It can also get you the wrong responses. If your dating profile picture is provocative or over the top, you will get the wrong type of people responding to your ad, even in a religion-based dating site. Of course, if the site is for adult dating you can be as provocative as you want. Typically, your first picture should be a headshot. A smile helps, but it is not necessary. If the site allows multiple photos, your other pictures should give prospects a glimpse of your life and personality.

2. Create a good username: Your username, also known as your screen name/ID, alias, or handle, is also essential. It offers other people a way to remember you and refer to you. You should brainstorm this before signing up with a dating service. You can use this name in your dating email address as this will make convenient for you and others. As in dating pictures, avoid suggestive usernames unless posting an adult dating profile. Try to spin an interest or something about your personality into the username so as to make it meaningful to the right prospect(s).

3. Create a winning headline: Not all dating services require a headline, but if yours does you should make the most of it. After the photo (and in some cases username), the headline is the most important aspect of your personal ad. Most people read the headline before deciding whether to read the rest of the profile. Make yours unique. Try highlighting your best attributes or an interest. Asking or saying something playful in the headline works too but can backfire if not done right.

4. Tell about yourself and what you want: List down your best qualities and attributes, and then use this list to write about yourself. Some people feel awkward writing about themselves so you are not alone if you feel this way. Some dating sites help their members by offering lists of descriptive words and phrases. These can help you get through sticking points. Be positive but don't brag.

5. Be personal: Your dating profile should read as though you are talking directly to a person. Write like you speak. Envision the person you want sitting comfortably across the table, each of you enjoying her/his favorite beverage. Use the word "you" often. Say what you want, and why you are the best choice for your prospective date. Be as descriptive and detailed as you can.

6. Edit: Never try to write your online dating profile right there on the dating site. The best practice is to type it on a separate word document (such as Word, Word Perfect, Word Pad etc.) and saving it on your computer. If you're more comfortable using pen and paper, do that. Let it sit for a day or two and then go back and make any necessary changes or corrections. Now, all you have to do is transfer the profile on to your chosen dating site and modify it as needed to fit in.