Guys can find lots of excuses...
Are you currently involved with what I like to call a runner?
What's a runner you might ask?
Good question.
A runner is a guy who seems to bolt literally or figuratively the moment the word, commitment gets brought up.
He's the guy who tries to talk himself out of any long term arrangements or plans with you and finds a way to make it seem like it is not his problem that he is not willing to commit to you.
Lots of women end up with runners. And they often get their hearts broken by these guys as they place so much of their hopes and dreams on men who cannot assume any kind of long term thinking when it comes to relationships.
How do you deal with a guy like this?
Most of the time, if you think that you will somehow be able to change him or make him see the light... all you are going to do is end up with a broken heart when he finally decides to leave you.
Sure, there are times when you can change the way that a guy feels about committing to a relationship with you. There are situations when all he really needs is just a little push in the right direction.
You have to be able to tell the difference between a guy who needs that little push and a guy who is not worth the time and energy to try and make him change.
It's not easy to tell the difference.
The runners can be pretty smooth when they talk. They can be pretty good actors and be phony about their real intentions.
My suggestion for most women who are dealing with a guy who constantly runs when the commitment talk gets going is to cut bait and admit that maybe he is not the one.
Realize that although he may be attractive to you in almost every which way... this is a big issue for him to fall short on. And unless you are willing to waste months an even years of your time with the slight hope that he may one day come to his senses... it is much easier to just look for the kind of guy who does not run.
They are out there.
You just need to know where to look for them and what to do when you find them so that they are taken aback by you and want to see what life could be like with you by their side.
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Are you currently involved with what I like to call a runner?
What's a runner you might ask?
Good question.
A runner is a guy who seems to bolt literally or figuratively the moment the word, commitment gets brought up.
He's the guy who tries to talk himself out of any long term arrangements or plans with you and finds a way to make it seem like it is not his problem that he is not willing to commit to you.
Lots of women end up with runners. And they often get their hearts broken by these guys as they place so much of their hopes and dreams on men who cannot assume any kind of long term thinking when it comes to relationships.
How do you deal with a guy like this?
Most of the time, if you think that you will somehow be able to change him or make him see the light... all you are going to do is end up with a broken heart when he finally decides to leave you.
Sure, there are times when you can change the way that a guy feels about committing to a relationship with you. There are situations when all he really needs is just a little push in the right direction.
You have to be able to tell the difference between a guy who needs that little push and a guy who is not worth the time and energy to try and make him change.
It's not easy to tell the difference.
The runners can be pretty smooth when they talk. They can be pretty good actors and be phony about their real intentions.
My suggestion for most women who are dealing with a guy who constantly runs when the commitment talk gets going is to cut bait and admit that maybe he is not the one.
Realize that although he may be attractive to you in almost every which way... this is a big issue for him to fall short on. And unless you are willing to waste months an even years of your time with the slight hope that he may one day come to his senses... it is much easier to just look for the kind of guy who does not run.
They are out there.
You just need to know where to look for them and what to do when you find them so that they are taken aback by you and want to see what life could be like with you by their side.
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