Love Can Be Simple If You Let It Be

It would be pretty accurate, I think, to say that people tend to make love a lot more complicated than it has to be. One of things that people tend to do is to set rules that the other person has to live by in order for it to be truly love in their eyes, and yet, they won't really tell the other person what those rules are. They expect that the right person would just know what they are. While it would be nice if it worked out that way, most of the time you will find that the other person is not aware of all of your "rules" and that can lead to a lot of arguing and other complications.

It can be a lot simpler than all of that.

A way to do this is to step back and realize that most of the time, those rules are simply YOUR ideas on the way a relationship should work. They are not necessarily the way that all relationships work and they are not necessarily the ONLY way that things should go. Just making that shift can reduce the amount of arguing that a couple has by a LOT.

Here's another way to make it simple for you:

Realize that love can be created. It's not some pie in the sky, one in a million kind of thing that people usually think it is. If you were to look at it from a more scientific perspective, you will see that you CAN kind of create love or at least set forth the foundation for it. When people think of it as being totally random, they kind of make themselves powerless and they can also make themselves feel very insecure about losing love.

When you see that you are not nearly as powerless to create love as you might suspect, you are a lot less likely to try and hang on to it so tightly and you are a lot less likely to feel like you can never have it.

The science behind love has brought a few things to light that should make you see how simple it can be. When the right conditions are created, the communication between two people is clear, and you have a general idea of the psychology behind attraction... you can make someone fall in love with you. Of course, they too have a choice in the matter, but you will be better off than most people are and much more likely to get the one that you want to fall in love with you.

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