Friday, October 21, 2011

Online Dating Etiquette - Do's and Don'ts

Have you decided to search for a date online? That is fine, but just as it is with normal dating, you must have online dating etiquette to succeed. This article will outline a set of practical dating etiquette that would ensure you get the best of your online dating experience. So let's get started.

One thing you must bear in mind is the importance of honesty from the very beginning. Your online dating profile must be free of lies and false stories. The problem with telling lies is that one lie will always lead to others, and with a chain of lies, it becomes difficult to remember what you have said in the past. When this happens, your lies can easily be spotted. So simply avoid this problem and the sub sequence lack of trust that follows by being honest from the very start.

Another important online dating etiquette is error-free writing. If you're like me, then not only do you hate to read badly written text, you also get a negative impression about the writer. So pay close attention to your spelling and grammar. Avoid the embarrassment of sounding immature or untidy. Granted, you do not have to write an award-winning piece of literature. But a well-written text could win you a date.
Do not write in all caps - that's like shouting. Avoid using abbreviated words and sentences in your written conversation except when it is obvious that your date is comfortable with it. Otherwise, they would have a hard time deciphering your text.

Nothing can put off singles as much as facing an "interview". So avoid asking a never-ending chain of questions. Let the questions flow naturally with the conversation. If during the conversation, they say something that can lead to a question, then ask them the question. Never forget that it is a conversation and as such you would have to provide some information about yourself as well. Just don't overdo it. You will get to know yourselves better with time.

Never give the impression that you are needy or desperate. Needy persons force themselves on others. And whatever acceptance they may get might only be temporary. So show some dignity, respect the wishes of the other party and move along nicely and without haste.

Finally, if you have met Mr. or Ms. Right, close your online dating account. Otherwise, you give the impression that you are still interested in others. This can create a lack of trust and it can put off your mate. You can simply avoid this by following this online dating etiquette.


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