The Ins and Outs of Online Dating from a Match.com Success Story

I was newly single at 40 years old with a 14 year old daughter and 10 year old son. I was way past the crazy social things I did in my early 20's past the point of hanging out in clubs, winning burping contests at the Boardy Barn in the Hamptons and going into the city for a wild party until 5 am. I was a single divorced mother trying to put my life back together and open to finding love the second time around.

Thankfully I did have one single friend my age that had never been married, had no kids, had been using Match.com for quite awhile and was ready, willing and able to teach me about dating in the 21st century.

At first I was leery but quickly learned that online dating afforded me the opportunity to pre-screen my potential dates in the comfort of my home, without having to hire a babysitter and in my pajamas.win/win/win.

Honestly I could fill a book with the many interesting dating stories I have but the bottom line is I met my second husband on Match.com. We've often joked that we could be in one of the cheesy commercials - met October 2006, married August 2008.

From the online dating experiences of myself, friends and my new husband, I have come up with some online dating guidelines that I'd like to share.

First, this is the most important step that no one ever tells you about work on yourself first before you look for a soul mate online or anywhere else for that matter. As a life coach I work with people on their goals and dreams, helping them to get clarity and to determine how to get what they want. The most important first step that I suggest to clients looking for a relationship is to make a list of the qualities you are looking for in a mate; once the list is complete, go back over it to make sure YOU either possess those qualities or are working on them yourself. Don't look for someone to solve your problems like financial security or low self esteem.

The reason I suggest this is that the biggest mistake people make is looking for someone to "complete them". I needed to learn to feel great about myself first, work on the areas I needed to work on and become the kind of person I'd like to date before I put up a profile on any online dating site because otherwise I might get caught in the trap of looking for outside validation. I needed to figure out who Dawn was at this stage of my life and then really like her.

The next step is to fill out your profile honestly. I stress the "honestly" because my husband and I met many people in person who lied on their online profile. Your profile describes characteristics about yourself such as age, body description, religion, income, etc. It also allows you space to describe yourself in more detail and what you are looking for in a date. Unfortunately, in my experience men lied about their height and age; in my husband's experience women lied about their body description and age.

My suggestion is to take time describing yourself. Then ask some honest, trustworthy friends to review what you've written as well as give you feedback about the type of person they would want you to meet. It's often interesting to get other people's perspectives. Upload a recent flattering picture of yourself. Again I stress "recent" because my husband had a few awkward dates where the woman was actually 15+ years older in person than her picture. Make your descriptions thoughtful and succinct then take the leap and post it. You're on your way!

The next step is the pre-screening process for both men and women. The biggest mistake I made at first was thinking that every single person who wrote to me was "the one". I learned to view each email with a cautiously optimistic approach and quickly learned what was a deal breaker for me and what caught my attention. From my friend's personal experience I learned to take time emailing the person to see if there was a connection, then agree to talk on the phone to see if there was a further connection, and then agree to meet in person for coffee or one drink. A brief one-on-one date is best because you're not trapped at a 2 hour dinner and this allows you enough time to consider a longer second date.

What I needed to feel was some type of connection in regards to sense of humor, intelligence, family values, etc. I wanted to meet someone who was also divorced and had children because I felt it would say a lot about the type of man, husband, father, provider they are. If I felt a connection after the pre-screening process, I agreed to meet in person.

The last step that I found the most important was to lighten up and have fun with the whole thing. I have so many funny stories about people I met and dates that went wrong but I look at all of them as lessons learned. A therapist once told me to look at dating at first as a way to figure out what you DON'T want in a companion. Once I started to have fun with it and get clear about what I didn't want, what I did want showed up.

My husband wrote a brief message to me initially, commenting on a picture I posted of a recent trip I had taken toIreland. I looked at his picture (check), I looked at his status "divorced with 2 kids" (check), he was Irish and had been toIreland(check), I looked at his description which was witty and sincere (check) but he lived much further away from me than I wanted. I decided to write back because I figured the worst that could happen is I get to have a new friend to talk to about Ireland.

I took a chance on a new friendship and what I got instead was a new husband..since August 2008.

How to Kiss Girls With Ease - Build Your Confidence to Kiss the Girl

Kissing girls: You can do it well! If you're nervous about kissing women, or see it as only a gateway towards sex, you're missing out. In fact, the more you take your time with kissing and truly enjoy it, the more chances you have of enjoying physical intimacy with a girl. So let me show you how to build confidence to kiss the girl - and enjoy it!

If you've never kissed before, the best thing you can possibly do is RELAX. It isn't a big deal if you muck up your first kiss! Girls are very understanding, and you can actually laugh about it. I know so many couples who joke about their first kiss. Many guys get awkward around girls when they kiss, but girls will forgive you if it's not perfect!

Next, learn proper kissing technique. That means knowing how to move in for the kiss, controlling your tempo, kissing for affection, and kissing for intimacy. There are lots of websites out there, but I like Kissing 101 the best for kissing girls the RIGHT ways. You'll get pictures and everything about what's right and what's wrong.

Kissing for Intimacy

First let's talk about kissing for intimacy. Say you're on a date and want to move things to the next level. The best way to do it is to talk about how you'd like to kiss her. As one guru, Craig, says, "Talking about sex is the first step towards having it." Likewise, talking about kissing is the first step towards actual kissing. It will relax both of you and, if said in a relaxed, confident, NOT desperate tone, can really excite a girl. Being relaxed and confident IS the best way to move in for a kiss.

Once you do get to kissing, kiss with passion: don't half-job it! Use your arms, your body: press into her, touch her face with your hands, stroke her hair. All these things show you're serious about intimacy and want her in the worst way.

Kissing for Affection

On the other side, if you want to show your girl affection, kissing is the best way to say you love her. As Kissing 101 tells you, women LOVE surprises, so nothing shows you love your girlfriend (or wife) like a surprise, spontaneous kiss out of nowhere! She'll love it, and thank you for it. She'll also reward you for it, by staying with you and treating you great.

Happy wife, happy life!

The same goes with girlfriends. Don't be surprised if she starts bringing you breakfast in bed, buying you presents, acting a lot nicer, when you give her lots of kisses out of nowhere, just to remind her that you love her. This works!

Remember, kissing is meant to be FUN. Once you see the fun and enjoyable side of kissing, you'll surely want more and more. As an old Chinese proverb goes, "Kissing is like drinking tea with a tea strainer: you can never get enough."

Become More Confident Kissing

To learn more great kissing techniques, and how to build the CONFIDENCE to kiss the girl as well, I recommend Kissing 101. Whether it's learning how to be confident around women, where to kiss a girl on her body, or learning fun kisses like the 'butterfly kiss,' this very affordable guide has it all.

You won't regret learning how to be a guy EVERY woman wants to kiss!

How To Kiss A Woman Like A Hollywood Stud!

Guys - within these few precious pages are the keys to becoming an expert kisser! Learn these secrets and you will have women kicking down your door!

First, you must realize the 'vibrations' or 'emotional sensations' generated by a kiss are much different for men than they are for women. For the unknowing man, usually a kiss is simply one of the first steps towards the ultimate - sex! These same men see kissing as an inconvenience and not for what it really is - a magical key that unlocks the gates to nirvana!

The kiss to a woman is so much more than most men realize. It is believed that a woman will decide within five minutes of meeting a man whether or not she will have sex with him soon BUT if he is a bad or even a mediocre kisser, her mind will change immediately! In fact, the decision may be made to never have sex with this guy. You must understand that women believe, and rightly so, that if a man fails to see the sensual benefits of a fine kiss then surely he will not, cannot, be sensual when making love. The rare man who can get lost in the passion of a great kiss will break the barriers of most women.

In most cases, and unfortunately for the bad kisser, women will not verbally reveal that you are a bad kisser but it will be obvious with her actions and inactions. A bad kisser rarely gets invited into a woman's apartment for a nightcap, let alone breakfast the next morning. A bad kisser will have many girl 'friends' but rarely will he have a long-term 'girlfriend' due to his handicap. A bad kisser is the butt of many jokes when a flock of 2 or more women gather. Don't underestimate the power of The Kiss!

Remember this; the good kisser sincerely believes the kiss to be the destination not just as a step towards the end goal of sex. The true master kisses as if he is grateful to never do anything else with this woman, as if he never wants to do anything else with this woman. He kisses as if this is what he's been dying to do for years and he wants to savor every second of the moment. Yes, a fine kiss, like fine wine, is to be savored and remembered not gulped and forgotten.

The next time you kiss a woman, assume you are being graded on your ability to kiss because you are. Failing marks in the kissing department will not allow you to graduate to the next level.

Make the commitment today to learn the necessary skills to becoming a legendary kisser and you will be amazed at the results!

The Kiss

"His kissing is as full of sanctity as the touch of holy bread"

As You Like It III, 4 (Rosalind to Celia, concerning Orlando) William Shakespeare

Be Prepared...

First and foremost you MUST guard against BAD BREATH! This will kill a relationship quicker than if you were crushed by a passing train on your first date! If you even think your breath may be an issue, go to myMass-Ebooks.com website and get a FREE copy of 'How To Win Your War Against Bad Breath!'. Read this information thoroughly and do what needs to be done to fix this problem. It's crucial to your success!

When preparing for a date, be sure your teeth are sparkling and your tongue scrubbed as clean as the deck of a Navy vessel. Be prepared with breath mints or gum should you decide to eat prior to any possible kiss. (Personally, I carry a travel container size of Orange Citrus Listerine. It taste great, freshens your breath, and kills any germs even considering making your mouth a home.)

The time has come for The Kiss!

Note: I have placed the following information in a step-by-step format. Your real life situation may cause you to digress from this format but by studying the information below you will capture the meaning of the instructions and be able to apply them accordingly.

1. I'm assuming you and her are in a comfortable position either on a comfortable couch or perhaps her doorstep. If you are not comfortable, get comfortable. Juggling for a comfortable position during a kiss is awkward and labels you as an amateur.

2. Hold your lover, or lover to be, gently but firmly. My personal favorite standing position is to gently hold both her hands, waist high, then slowly bend towards her for the kiss. This maneuver is not threatening to her and even has a sense of traditional chivalry. Another option is to gently touch her face and lips then cup her face with one or both hands just below her ears and tenderly pull her head towards yours. Of course, if she resist, even the slightest, stop immediately.

Simple rule; if she pulls back then you pull back. If she moves forward, you move forward.

3. Plant soft, delicate kisses on her lips, cheeks and eyelids. Softly run your finger over her lips as you move your lips towards her. Smoothly tilt your head in the opposite direction of hers (without bumping noses) and merge your closed lips to hers. Once your lips meet, close your eyes and get lost in the sensation of the kiss. Mimic her kissing actions for a few seconds and gather sense of her reaction. Your goal, here and now, is to please HER!

OPTION: If this your first goodnight kiss, STOP after this first kiss! Kiss her gently on the forehead and say "Goodnight. I had an incredible time and I can't wait to see you again."

I realize this is in direct contrast to your manhood but it's good to leave a woman when she is turned on sensually. By doing this simple, albeit difficult, gesture you demonstrate considerable respect for her and self control for yourself, two very redeeming qualities. You will leave her with questions unanswered. You have now become an enigma. This can drive a woman crazy with passion!

4. Continue kissing her affectionately, but now with your lips slightly open no wider than your finger. Kiss her lips as if you are calmly sucking the juice from the side of a Popsicle. Savor the sweetness and tenderness of her lips. Your lips should now be in pulsating sync with hers. Monitor her reaction to your action. Is she receptive to your kiss? Is her body language telling you she is enjoying the kiss? Is she subtly exposing her breast to you by repositioning her arms? Perhaps, if seated, she has uncrossed her legs. Don't even think about getting a case of 'crazy hands' before you see these signs or similar. The flavor and thrill of this kiss should absorb all your concentration. In fact, your immediate goal in life is to bring your women to orgasm with your kissing talents. Believe me, it can be done!

5. If she is receptive thus far to your kiss, now is the time to pull your lips from hers. Yes, pull your lips from hers, stare into her eyes for a few seconds, smile softly, gently kiss her nose once (Nose kiss is optional) then kiss her neck four to five times before pressing your lips to hers again, repeating step 4. (This pause will, consciously perhaps even subconsciously, indicate to her a.) That YOU are in control! Women love this! And b.) The importance of this kiss to you and the passion you feel for her. In essence, you are making the bold statement - "I am enjoying the living hell out of this kiss, I want it to last, and my penis is NOT doing the thinking.")

Again, judge her reactions to each of your actions. Women have different erogenous zones. Often her neck and ear area are prime sensual real estate zones. Your lips on her collarbone or the inside of her elbow may be the next best thing to serious foreplay for her. Be experimental. Be deliberate. A woman likes to know a man knows what he is doing. But always be tender.

If you do discover an area that arouses exceptional passion in her, tease that area, pulling back at key times, leaving her wanting more.

NOTE: As revealed in 'The Ugly Man's Guide To Getting Laid!', it is not a sin to leave her, even if momentarily, in a discombobulated, passionate state. If you sense her passion peaking to an unbelievable level pull back! As stated earlier, this self-control will, at best, drive her passionately wild or, at worse, reveal to her that you are a man who knows what he is doing!

"I can express no kinder sign of love Than this kind kiss"

2 Henry V I,1 (Henry first meeting Margaret) William Shakespeare

6. It is now time to get risky. Slowly and lightly draw your tongue across her lips. If all is going well, chances are her lips will open and her tongue will meet yours.

A few DO's to follow...

DO breathe through your nose. If this is not natural for you, practice. Use a nose spray prior to your date to clear your nasal passages. If she loses consciousness during your awesome kiss ONLY THEN can you breath through your mouth to perform mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. Keep in mind, you are kissing a women not blowing up a beach ball! DO swallow often while kissing. Chances are your dental hygienist will not be available with her suction wand. DO attempt to keep your lips moist. This slight lubrication will make the kiss even more enjoyable for you and your lucky lady. DO get into a groove, that pulsating sync I spoke about earlier. Like good sex and great dancing, kissing with the tongue requires give-and-take. As the kissing proceeds she may want to take control. Let her. Follow her lead. DO pause on occasion with the tongue but remain joined at the lips. This can actually heighten the passion much like being on a dance floor holding your partner motionless. Chemistry is being created. This is good!

A few Do NOT's about kissing with your tongue...

Do NOT dart your tongue in and out of her mouth! Your woman is kissing a man not Sammy The Snake. Gently, passionately, 'wrestle' her tongue with yours. Develop a rhythm between her tongue and yours. At times, in a lightly and controlled manner, suck on her lip and her tongue. DO NOT BITE. The tongue is very sensitive so be careful. Do NOT jam your tongue down her throat. Leave the tonsillectomy to a qualified surgeon. Do NOT swing your tongue around her mouth like a crazed windmill. Do NOT lick her like an Irish Setter does a plate of beef drippings.

NEWSFLASH! There are no erogenous zones in the back of her throat!

7. By now, the passion should be increasing between the two of you. Allow your hands to get in the act by stroking her hair, massaging the inner parts of her arms, rubbing her back, caressing her face BUT leave her breast and genital area alone. Most men will dive for her breast and crotch at this stage of the game. But you're different, right? Concentrate on your kissing skills only. She will let you know if and when she's ready to proceed further. Once you master kissing, every segment of the lovemaking will be enhanced. Please, trust me on this!

"In kissing do you render or receive?... The kiss you take is better than you give."

Troilus and Cressida IV, 5 (Cressida to Patroclus) William Shakespeare

8. If you are in a daring mood, try kissing with your eyes open and see if she is receptive. This is taboo to various 'experts' and many people find this to be an impossible task, like sneezing with your eyes open. But for some, open-eye kissing can increase the intimacy much like making love with the lights on full power.

Well, my friend, this is where I have decided to end 'How To Kiss Like A Hollywood Stud!' Any advice given after this would be trespassing into the fields of foreplay and this I do NOT want to do. This report is on kissing and kissing alone! Please understand how important this lost art is to a woman. Understand this, and you can write your own ticket.

Do You Really Fully Understand Girls Are Kissing!

A kiss sparks powerful feelings such as love , love as well as intimacy . Everybody wants to be considered a good kisser, no matter what their age. Kissing like any other art gets better with practice. Are you wondering, how you can be a good kisser? Now that you understand the way girls feel, begin using these good kissing tips as girls are kissing.

Hygiene is the most important among kissing tips for girls as your smell might repel the girl. Always maintain dental hygiene, and brush your teeth ahead of when to start dating ?. Should you suffer foul breath, make use of a mouth wash following brushing , and carry a small mouthwash bottle inside your purse. Almost always carry some mints inside your purse, if you feel your likely to be kissing on the date.

Always look at the best ladies, this is also one of the important kissing strategies for girls. From time to time a spontaneous kiss is going to be memorable. But continually be ready and dress up pretty. As you two will be very near to one another though kissing, always smell good and employ a mild perfume.

Moisturize your skin with a decent lotion. Scrub your lips. This can be done, by scrubbing your lips having a toothbrush and paste. Keep the lips well moisturized and supple, this can be done using a lip balm. If you want to wear lipstick, always wear one that's light toned. Keep the make-up light and natural and don't overdo it. Girls don't like too much make-up when they're about to kiss a girl.

If you are going to kiss for the first time, always go slow and become caring. Often, girls make the first move, but if you've been dating your girl for a while, she would like you to make the very first move. Have you got doubts about how exactly to kiss a woman for the first time? Be bold and make the very first move. Your girlfriend will probably think it is an exhilarating change .

Most of the communication, from a pair, is non-verbal. So, aside from speaking with your girl, use body gestures and expressions like excellent good posture , gestures, and facial expression . Eyes are necessary and express multiple emotions. When the first is looking at someone passionately , she or she imagines a triangle , with two points of the triangle, for the eyes and the third point for the lips. Think about this triangle in your girl's face, whenever you wish to kiss her. It becomes an other than conscious signal, people send to other people , but by using it consciously with your girl, you will have her attention. Use the right flirting tips and you will surely have her focus .
Also, if you want her to kiss you, maintain considering her eyes after which look at her lips. This is a very clear signal, and if she wants to kiss you, she'll certainly make her move.

A woman can be sensitive throughout her body. But girls possess particular sensitive areas, that is, the erogenous zones in their lower body. Lips possess a large amount of nerve endings and therefore, are extremely sensitive. Girls are sensitive on the lips, so if you give your girlfriend just a little sexy pout, look at her in a flirtatious style , and if just feel her lips lightly with your fingers, she will definitely want to kiss you.

Shyness could be a big obstruction, if you wish to kiss your girl. If you want a woman but feel shy, because you have no idea how she feels about you, take this particular quiz on does she like me. girls like being kissed, so don't be shy. But, utilize shyness to tease her . girls like that! In addition do not tease her for too long or she might loose curiosity about kissing.

Should you or your girlfriend wear glasses, drive them off before kissing. If your girl wears braces, do not put pressure on her lips and keep your kiss gentle. Cruising is, if some of you is suffering from cold or virus, avoid kissing .

French kissing is one of the most affectionate and sensuous of all kisses. It's an extremely impassioned kiss . Because of the use of the tongue, which has a very sensitive surface . Right here, are the kissing strategies for girls on french kissing.

This is a very passionate kiss. For you to French kiss your girl, move nearer to your girl and touch her on her shoulder. Look at her eyes and then at her lips. The lady will tilt her head and lean closer to kiss you. Otherwise, touch her lightly on her behalf lips with your fingers and then move you towards the nape of her neck. Play with her hair as well as brush your lips softly on her behalf lips and start kissing her with your lips. Wait for the girl's response prior to using your tongue! You can bite her lightly on her behalf lower lip. When you feel her tongue, gently play with her tongue. To deepen your own kiss, caress her back and move closer to her body. End the actual kiss slowly and gradually and lightly and again consider her eyes and smile.

It's not essential for you to use your tongue while French kissing. But don't forget ladies, ladies like passion when it comes to kissing.

Additionally whenever kissing passionately , get it done in private, so that its comfortable for both of you. A kiss in several cases is assigned to sex, go through kissing: sex and the kiss to learn more.

If you have been dating your girl for some time, then try this bold technique of kissing tips for girls. Grab her shirt in one hand and her hair with the other hand and start kissing her. Put the body weight on her behalf and kiss her passionately. You may also, maybe bite her lips and use your tongue to deepen your kiss. This was kissing described in brief .

All of the above girls are kissing techniques will help you learn, how to be considered a good kisser. But remember, it is not essential for the problem to be perfect. If you are sitting close enough and you wish to check your chemistry together with your partner, go on and kiss her. More on kissing techniques, positions and variety of kisses.

Here's a little secret! Should you balance your kiss with the right passion and use the above kissing strategies for girls, you'll have a strong effect on your girl. Get started kissing your girlfriend with sufficient warmth and love, but additionally deepen your kiss through displaying a few passion to your girlfriend, and she will remember the kiss and also the kisser for a long period.

Girls Are Kissing, French Kissing That Is!

There are many methods to express our affection towards the lady in our life and something of the best included in this would be to offer her a detailed, passionate along with a loving kiss! Kissing is an art despite the fact that it doesn't take a good deal to understand it, still there are some simple and important things to know, so that you can successfully kiss your girl and provide her (and yourself too!) a sensational experience ! There are lots of kissing strategies, positions and number of kisses, but the crux of this article is to let you know, how you can French kiss a woman. French kiss can also be called 'Soul kiss', as the breath of the two lovers, which is supposed to bring life towards the soul, passes through their mouth, while they are gently and closely diving in the depth from the French kiss. How to French kiss a woman?

In order to learn French kissing, then remember , there isn't any right way or perhaps a wrong way to French kiss a woman. The technique is undoubtedly a key factor, but in addition to that, it is the desire and emotion you're purchasing it. Try to remember Young ladies ! A kiss is a kiss, and if you attempt to maneuver further and anticipate more (I guess, you read between your lines!) then it is highly probable, the girl will push you back and you'll lose a golden opportunity , or might be should you really enthrall her with a nice kiss, you might get the further more signal (Lucky you!). All of this can happen, if you are trying a French kiss on your first date (How stupid!) or might be on second or even the third date. So, understand the situation and then proceed!

A few of the French kissing tips are pointed out below . The particular kissing strategies and suggestions will help you create a good everlasting memory of your French kiss and she or he will keep telling her friends about the experience for a lot of weeks!

Ladies, sadly, but I have to discuss this! It does not try taking some rocket science knowledge to comprehend the fact that a neat and imposing personality is a necessary prerequisite, when you are thinking to approach your girl for a kiss and especially the french kiss! In the event you don' t brush your teeth often and never make use of a perfume, your girlfriend will certainly try to escape even before you approach her in the intimate zone! The concept would be to look respectable and attractive , so don't exaggerate anything and get a make over. Just make it simple! Carry mouth fresheners like mint that may give a good aroma for your mouth. Several females prefer chewing gum. Well, not a bad idea, but the issue is chewing gum causes a lot more saliva production in your mouth as well as for a French kiss, it's not great, if you are full of saliva! Avoid gum and have good quality mouth fresheners. Stay clear of spicy foods or even food stuff with intense smell of garlic, onion, dairy, coffee and tea. We all know, exactly how our mouth smells after having them (yuck!), so better avoid it. If you are a smoker, then do be mindful you don't smoke just before the kiss and ruin everything . You have to decide you want a French kiss or perhaps puff a cigar ? Look smart and adorable !
Surprise and unwanted French kiss is not a very bright idea, unless you have several amazing understanding levels . As well as if you do have, just conveying your desires to your lover can seem really sweet and pleasant to her ! Besides this , if you're just a newbie inside your relationship, then attempt to read her body language. Is she inching closer to you while you are sitting together with her? In the event she bites the woman's lips , smiles often and that too a great deal, touches your arms and face often and plays with her hair! Ladies! These are all signals! I understand you can't be a specialist in reading body language, consider she's your girlfriend friend, I guess her eyes will automatically convey you the woman's feelings . And last although not minimal, if you're this type of nerd that you simply cannot read the woman's feelings (duh!), basically ask her to test a French kiss! Who knows, if she has been awaiting a long time! When you seek her permission it will likewise send the message that you simply care for her thoughts, feelings and priorities in her life. Male chivalry by no means will go to waste ! Surprise French kiss is a great option for those who are extremely intimate within their relationship and can manage it anytime!

When you both are ready for the French kiss, make sure that you choose an environment that does not disturb you too much and also you both are comfortable with it. Be confident ! Don't get nervous or intense ! Confident way to have that romantic allure and passion in your face. Nervousness will let you bump your heads into each other and cause uneasiness as you both hold one another. On the other hand , you shouldn't be a neurotic and erupt like a volcano. Show patience and keep the emotions suppressed, so that the procedure for kissing lasts longer as well as worsens as time passes. Ladies! Patience is the key!

Both of you are close, feeling each others breath ! In the event that your woman tilts her head in a direction, then you'll obviously tilt your face in a direction opposite to her's. You are receiving closer now and lips are simply about to touch! Hang on there. Consider her eyes, so close and also so gorgeous ! Don't say anything, let words be non-existent for sometimes . Diving deep in to her eyes , gradually shut them ! The reason behind closing the eyes is the fact that firstly, it will help you have the pleasure associated with kissing more intimately . Secondly, taking a look at two crossed eyes, so close can be a bit distracting for many Ladies. Just close them and become prepared to take all of the sensations away with you.

Start with a light kiss on her behalf lips with your mouth closed. Gently rub your lips on her lips and keep kissing slowly and gradually , gently and intimately! Don't be too soft or way too hard, be a man and keep it a bit hard (she should feel being kissed, after all!). Remember not to begin with your tongue quickly and spoil the actual act . Have patience and revel in brushing your lips on her lips smoothly.

You know what, she loved the touch of your smooth rubbing of the lips. Great! At this point open your own lips somewhat and cover her lips slightly! Bear in mind Ladies, open it slightly and not to full extent!

It might be imperative to hold her with your hands, as the concentration of the kiss is increasing and you just need to provide her a support so that she can forget everything and dive with you in the French kiss. Where to keep both hands while French kissing would be to put your left hand on her hips and right hands on the region between waist and underarm . Once she is in your arms, be a player and increase the intensity of the kiss. In the event that she begins kissing harder, you may also give her back. She will hold you by your shoulders or perhaps will put her hands who are around you, don't mind that (why can you!) and stick to her and enjoy the French kiss. She may touch that person or have fun with hair, well, i don't think anybody of you would mind that!

As you are getting closer and the intensity of the kiss is slowly and gradually increasing , It's time to transition to some serious French kissing! Since she too is enjoying the French kiss, open your mouth wider and lightly put your tongue inside her mouth . This is actually the essence from the French kiss, the tongue plays a crucial role in French kisses. Tongues are very sensitive and touching her tongue will give you some real sensation. Gradually and gently, roll your tongue over her tongue as well as smoothly keep touching it . After some time, she'll start exactly the same process on you (wow!). Switch your own tongue in circular movement over her tongue and maintain flicking her tongue . You will feel the depth of the kissing! When you both are just reaching heights of the French kiss, you can even try out sucking your partner's tongues or lightly bite her tongue ! These kind of modest gestures can be quite passionate and may increase the depth of your French kiss.

Among the popular errors while French kissing is the fact that people don't think of breathing. This type of close and passionate kiss needs you to definitely breather timely. So, be certain that you're not necessarily holding back air and maintain breathing through your nose! The mouth area will be busy in kissing!

Last but not the least, once you both are done, just thank her for the beautiful experience and don't forget to complement 'Honey! You had been awesome!' Be sincere and frank with your thoughts. Even she will love to share her experience, so that the next time you both can enhance the French kiss. French kiss can also improve your kissing confidence and assist you to enhance your love life! They were a few of the tips on how to French kiss a woman. So, whenever you meet your girlfriend the next time, at this point you know what to give her and get her for in exchange! All the best!

What you Must Know When Moving in for the First Kiss

Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine whether or not you are a good lover. If you cannot kiss, chances are you are lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable to women.

I have a lot of female friends and let me tell you, whenever they first kiss man the first thing they do is tell everyone they know how it was. One of the first questions asked to a woman after a date (sometimes the first question) is: "So, did you kiss?" If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by "What it good?"

You may have taken my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my kissing advice , you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That is if you don't know how to kiss already, of course. Knowing how most men think I am assuming that you believe you already know how to kiss girls properly. From what I've heard through my female friends, however, chances are you do not know everything.

Everything you do when kissing a girl, especially for the first time, will have her re-evaluating any pre-judgments she may have had about you. You could give the first impression that you are confident, sensual, and smart, but if you give her a bad kissing experience she will immediately associate a new set of beliefs to you.

Women want to be with a man who can make them feel as though they are the sexiest woman alive, and this cannot be accomplished if you cannot kiss. She will also think you don't give a damn because excellent kissing advice is everywhere and finding effective kissing tips is very easily found - if you look for it.

Learning how to kiss girls goes far deeper than applying a bunch of kissing tips on her, though. In order to blow any woman away with your lips you have got to know when and how to execute those kissing tips . The mood and timing play a major factor and if not carefully executed it won't matter whether you are a kissing master because she cannot fully enjoy it!

Men are so much different than women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss a woman he is interested gives him, even if it's a bad kiss. I have slept with many girls who couldn't kiss worth a damn because we men are animals. Plus, most men, along with myself, believe they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they desire.

Women, on the other hand, are far more picky. If they are not impressed or are repulsed by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never get into a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he's doing and believe they should never have to teach him about kissing. After all, in a woman's mind a bad kisser is a man who's not sensual - and sensuality, to a woman, cannot be taught.

Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any kiss for that matter, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasurable. That said, a kiss is not just a physical action, it is an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.

Building Anticipation

One of my favorite kissing tips I have used over the years is building anticipation. If you are receiving positive signals from a girl and are almost 100% sure she would like you to kiss her, hold off. Anticipation will build tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. Everything good in life is worth waiting for, and a first kiss is no exception.

There are so many things a man has to do before going in for a kiss and this article will give you some very valuable kissing advice that will blow her socks off. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we have a very good understanding of what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.
Be Kissable

A man has got to be kissable if he wants any woman to crave his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, soft, silky, and smooth. Do you know how many men I have seen out on a date with dry, chapped, and cracked lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don't care how attractive you are, if you're lips are disgusting no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before you go out with a woman. Lip balm works wonders and I cannot recommend its use enough. You can limit its use only for dates and while meeting women, but if you don't mind building somewhat of a dependence on the stuff, use it all the time!

Prevent Or Mask Bad Breath

So you've got nice lips already, do you? Okay, there are some of us who do, but there is something else you should always ask yourself: "How does my breath smell?" People with bad breath rarely know that they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day you should always bring breath mints when you are with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not eliminate halitosis (bad breath) because teeth are not the culprit that cause bad breath.

Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to defeat it is by using breath mints. Also, drink a lot of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from getting dry, and a dry mouth smells a lot worse than a moist one. This kissing advice must be followed always because you could be doing everything else right, but if your breath smells, sayonara. You fail. Women are very sensitive to smells and bad breath will have them turning away and running out the door faster than a bad out of hell.

Be Sure She Is Ready To Be Kissed

Even if you have the nicest teeth and freshest smelling breath, you have to know for sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail on reading female body language and signals women send so I recommend you become familiar with them because nothing is as embarrassing as being turned away from a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is really easy to know if they are kissable.

If you think a woman is sending signals that she can be kissed, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don't rush into a kiss, especially first kisses, even you're receiving positive vibes. Like I said earlier, building anticipation is very effective and picking the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set you up and help you execute, but it is ultimately up to you to decide if the time is right.

Move In For The Kiss

Once you think the time is right, make your approach and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn't have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn't expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.

Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don't go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I'm sure that women find it even more bizarre.

Be Gentle

The first kiss must be gentle. You don't want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don't be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman's throat. A french kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.

After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn't move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual.

Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss

Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don't start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she'll think you're just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don't rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don't just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: "I don't want to miss even a millimeter of your lips."

Relax And Breathe

Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, though second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. Not that you'll end up suffocating if you're into a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and making silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.

Touch Her While Kissing

One of the most effective kissing tips you will ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice you must not overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need a lot more. Using your hands by touching and/or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outer part of her arms or hold her hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not to feel her up.

Don't Just Kiss Her Lips

After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of the face. The side of her mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and anywhere else on her face . Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel as though you cannot get enough of her entire face. Don't overdo it though - you are not a dog.

Say Sweet Nothings

You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you've had a crush on her for a while and were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on the softness of her lips and how pleasant she smells. Make her feel as though she is the most attractive woman you've ever kissed and I promise you she will open up even more and be comfortable in progressing into french kissing or even sex. Learning how to french kiss deserves its own kissing advice article so I won't get into it here. Just know that comfort level is important in getting the most out of a kissing session.

The kissing tips I've outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to a lot of men and never have any of them been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help and hope that you enjoy ever last minute while your lips are touching hers.

Tips to Writing Your Online Dating Profile

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Ever wondered why some of your single friends seem to get more matches through online dating than you? (We're not talking about your friends who physically resemble Brad and Angelina here.) You are all of a similar standard in the looks department, but some of them just keep getting the matches. Perhaps you need to overhaul your online dating profile. Check these tips below to ensure that your online dating profile is as good as it can be:

Sell yourself up. You should never forget that your online dating profile is pretty much an advertisement for yourself. There is no point downplaying your attributes. Demonstrate your best features in a positive light. Would you purchase a car that had an uninspiring ad?

Show individuality. Don't be afraid to stand out from the rest of the online dating singles. People get bored reading the same descriptions over and over. Make an effort to give different answers to others. Bland and safe answers are boring answers and you will not catch any one's attention by playing it safe.
Select an appropriate name. This is a really important point that many singles overlook when online dating. Single guys should note that girls do not think that any kind of dating name that has overly sexual connotations is clever or appealing. Everyone gets the names with 69 in them, no they are not clever, and most girls find them a turn off. If you can't think of anything original, or everything you can think of is taken, opt for your porn star name. Your porn star name is the name of your first pet and the name of your first street that you lived in. Play around with those name combinations until you find something you like.

Display a photo. Surveys show over and over that other singles will not date you if they cannot see what you look like. This makes sense since approximately 90% of initial attraction is based upon appearances. Other online dating singles want to see what you look like now, not 10 years and 10 kilos ago. Ensure that your online photo is as flattering as it can be. If you have great features make sure that they are well displayed in the photo.

Be honest. There is no point lying about your age and your hobbies. You are only wasting your time and everyone else's. Be honest about what sort of relationship you are seeking. There are plenty of singles in online dating for all types of encounters. If you are not interested in long term relationships tick one of the other boxes. Being honest on your profile gives you a much higher chance of finding someone that you are genuinely going to have things in common with.

Don't appear desperate. You may be desperate and dateless. You may feel that you are hopeless. You may have been single for a while. However, your online dating profile is no place to display those thoughts. No one likes misery. The more desperate you appear, the less singles you will attract. The trick to online dating is to appear happy and carefree.

Spend some time and thought on your online dating profile. Your online dating profile is definitely not the place for 'near enough is good enough'. Your online dating profile is the equivalent of you walking into a singles club. Would you go there looking less than your best? Eye catching online dating profiles do grab the attention of online dating singles. Overhaul your profile now.