Hooking up with women from dating sites doesn't need to be difficult. In fact, when you have a good system in place it becomes an astonishingly simple procedure.
The following is anoverview of the steps you'll need to take to go from random strangers to intimate lovers.
Step 1) Get in the right "mind-state" for online dating
You don't need to psychoanalyze yourself, or do a bunch of "inner-work" to succeed with online dating. But it sure helps if you're in a decent mood, and it's even better when you're "high on life". To get in the best mood possible, try combining a handful of mood adjusters, you could as an example: go for a run, drink a caramel latte, put your favorite song on, and call a friend. These things will make you extra happy to be alive, and that positive emotional energy will be apparent to women online.
Step 2) Put up a non-creepy profile
Your profile doesn't need to be perfect. But it absolutely cannot be perceived as creepy by women. First, get a picture of yourself with a calm smile or other acceptable expression on your face. Second, make sure you are dressed cool in the picture, that means you've got to wear a SHIRT! And third, don't mention sex, past girlfriends, Star Trek, or how much you love children. Instead tell an interesting anecdote or two that paint an interesting picture of the life you're living, and try to show some enthusiasm about it!
Step 3) Email some women
When you find a woman you would like to date, read her profile and pick out something that genuinely interests you. Then make a comment about it. Don't tell her how pretty she is or how much you have in common, just make platonic conversation. The fact that you are interested in her as a woman is obvious and doesn't need to be stated via email. Acting chill will show her that you aren't a desperate horn-ball like every other guy who has emailed her this week, and it will give her something concrete to respond back to.
Step 4) Chill
After you've emailed a handful of girls, take a break and do something else fun. Sitting at the computer all day is depressing and not good for your game. Don't keep checking your email, a watched pot never boils, so focus your attention elsewhere.
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